Saturday, March 01, 2008

Pursuing happiness

She could be any one amongst us – she is my friend - she has the perfect life when seen from a distance – in every way – but she is not happy – like most of us. She does not know why – she has no major troubles – no issues – but something is amiss - however hard she tries, she is not able to find her exact problem. My recent conversations with her got me thinking - do we sometimes search for happiness in the wrong places – do we always have to search for happiness – should we be more busy creating reasons to smile rather than wondering why there are not enough reasons. Way back in school, I got a gift – it was a wooden plaque which had these words engraved on it – "Happiness is not about having everything – it is about enjoying everything we have". True – simple lessons in life are maybe meant to be the easiest to forget and the most difficult to recollect – else we would be in a perfect world and life just might be boring.

12 comments:

Prashant Kulli said...

Are you referring to someone specific in this post, of course you would be! who is "she" in this? :-D I have a vague idea about whom are talking about here :-)

Dolly Dwivedi said...

"She" is this post is nto the "she" who comes 2 ur mind when u read this - but ya similarities do exist! :P :)

Prashant Kulli said...

Your comment is confusing as always! :-) But well I knew whom were you referring to here.

Dolly Dwivedi said...

It was soley meant to confuse you ;) :)

Anonymous said...

Searching for happiness makes people unhappy. being happy or unhappy is totally depends on ourself. There is nothing like "searching for happiness". its just a feeling. if u think u r happy , den u ll feel happy. :)


"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us" - Helen Keller

Dolly Dwivedi said...

@anonymous: Well said but the fact remains that it's easier said than done :)Creating your own happiness is sometimes the most difficult thing 2 do :) For now, I ll just chillax n have a kappi :)

Anonymous said...

haan, i know .. its easy to say than doing it. but u know its just an extra effort... its common tendency dat ppl wil try up to some point and they ll loose hopes, when actually just 1% of extra effort is required.
u knw, that 1% of extra effort (in any situation) decides if u r ordinary or extraordinary..
this is the fact !!!
;)

Dolly Dwivedi said...

@anonymous: Who art thou? :)

Anonymous said...

meeee ! well, i am just your regular blog reader and i watch it very closely. i think i could manage to know little more abt u... hmmm there is nothing special that you want to know about me. i am not in your friends list or office. i am just a anonymous, n waiting for next blog ! ;)

Dolly Dwivedi said...

Intriguing! :)

niki said...

@dolly-oh this is so simple, I think I have the cure for this, I know what the miss is---->BEER!!

Dolly Dwivedi said...

Paaah! Ur solution 2 everything from a dying man to some one's dandruff problem to global warming!